Life is Irrecoverably Wasted ...

I am a woman's woman and most faithful friend you will ever meet.  I won't run off with your man. I won't hate you because you are beautiful. I won't bring you down or discourage you. I'll tell you there is lipstick or something on your teeth. I'll celebrate your success as my own. I'll keep your secrets. I'll fiercely defend you. I'll laugh and cry with you. I'll tell you the hard truth with love with kindness. I'll listen to your rants without judgement, even when you tell me the same stories over and over again. I chose my friends carefully. And if I chose you, I will love you till the end. And if along the way we fall apart, have faith I will keep every secret to myself and only talk about the good side of you..   

LETTING GO TAKES LOVE To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another. To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequences. To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands. To let go is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself. To let go is not to care for, but to care about. To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive. To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being. To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their destinies. To let go is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality. To let go is not to deny, but to accept. To let go is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them. To let go is not to adjust everything to my ...

Your reflection on marriage captures both its beauty and challenges. It emphasizes the importance of mutual effort, patience, and understanding. Marriage is indeed a journey of constant growth, where both partners are imperfect but can work together to build a strong foundation based on mutual respect, love, and piety. Forgiveness and gratitude, even for the small things, are key to sustaining a meaningful relationship. It's also a reminder that life is temporary, and in that limited time, nurturing what you have with sincerity and effort is vital. Marriage, like life, isn’t about perfection but about making the best of what you have and appreciating the journey with your partner. Lady ᙠʚɞ 

One day, you’ll take a photo that becomes the last photo you ever take with someone. It won’t feel like a last. It won’t be staged or planned. You’ll smile, maybe laugh, and go on with your day. Only later days, months, or years later, you’ll look back at it and realize… this was it. The last time you stood side by side. The last time you hugged. The last time they were here. They can be gone at any moment, and that photo might be all you have left. If you lost them tomorrow, would you have anything to remember them by? So take the photos. Even when your hair is a mess. Even when you don’t feel “photo-ready.” Because one day, it won’t matter how you looked, only that you were there. 

As I write, I'll sing this song for the greatest love I've ever known. To my heart, you have the only key, I beg of you, never set me free. I prayed to God for a love so true now, I, realize He already knew. In time my prayer WAS answered, the most wonderful man HE BLESSED ME WITH YOU. What we share feels so right to say I love you every night. Wonderful moments shared, precious memories, still tell me you care. I see your shadow, as I lay myself to sleep. Dreams of you, oh so sweet in my heart, I will keep. Look into my heart, my life. Tell me, what do you see? can you feel the need, the want, as I love being your wife, you my husband. Much joy and happiness you've brought me. If I had life to live again, I'd want to with you, my lover, my best friend. Always and Forever, I'll love you till the end.

The past holds many secrets for everyone, some secrets are harmless, some secrets are threatening and some secrets are just life changing, Secrets that many would die before ever revealing. In our lives we do not realize when a sentence, a thought, a doing or ever a whisper shall become a secret, Precious little things turn out to be an adventure and a change of events turn out to become deep dark secrets. From a tender age to an adult life, we gather secrets, Secrets sometimes we record in our neatly paged diaries and neatly folded letters, Secrets solely meant for our eyes only. Secrets are just secrets, but secrets, Most are revealed in unpredictable circumstances, those that open a can of worms, But the most dangerous of all secrets, Are the ones very well kept hidden. Do u have a secret?

Marriage is ugly, you see the absolute worst in someone. You see them when they’re mad, sad, being stubborn, when they’re so unlovable they make you scream. But you also get to see them when they are laughing so hard that tears run down their face, and they can’t help but let out those weird gurgling noises. You see them at 3am when the world is asleep except you two, and you’re eating in the middle of the kitchen floor. You get to see the side of them that no one else does, and it’s not always pretty. Its snorting while laughing, its the tears when it feels like its all crashing down, its the farting, its the bedhead and bad breath, its the random dances, its the anger and the joy. Marriage isn’t a beautiful thing, but it is amazing. It’s knowing that someone loves you so much, and won’t leave you even though you said something nasty. It’s having someone have your back no matter what. Its fights over stupid things, like someone not doing the dishes or picking up after themselves. And...