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It might be hard to be lovers But its harder to be friends Baby pull down the covers Its time you let me in Maybe light a couple candles Ill just go ahead and lock the door If you just talk to me baby Til we aint strangers anymore Lay your head on my pillow I sit beside you on the bed Dont you think its time we say Some things we havent said It aint too late to get back to that place Back to where, we thought it was before Why dont you look at me Til we aint strangers anymore Sometimes its hard to love me Sometimes its hard to love you too I know its hard believing That love can pull us through It would be so easy To live your life With one foot out the door Just hold me baby Til we aint strangers anymore Its hard to find forgiveness When we just run out of lies Its hard to say you're sorry When you cant tell wrong from right It would be so easy To spend your whole damn life Just keeping score So lets get down to it baby There aint no need to lie Tell me who you think you see When ...

Someday you'll discover that living brings more fulfillment than buying. Someday you'll realize that each day is a golden treasure, far too precious to be wasted pursuing someone else's idea of happiness. Someday you'll discover that you already have enough, and will spend your time being rather than getting. Someday you'll understand the futility of taking shortcuts, and will hunger for the solid nourishment of living with integrity. Someday you'll experience the magnificent abundance which comes from giving of yourself. Someday you'll live each moment with purpose and passion. That someday is coming. There's nothing stopping it but you. Someday life will be filled with joy and meaning. That someday can be today. Live it, and it is yours.

"In the infinity of life where i am, All is perfect, whole and complete. I believe in a power far greater than I am that flows through me every moment of every day. I open myself to the wisdom within, knowing that there is only One Intelligence comes all the answers, all the solutions, all the healings, all the new creations. I trust this Power and Intelligence, knowing that whatever I need to know is revealed to me, and whatever i need comes to me in the right time, space and sequence. All is well in my World." ~ You Can Heal Your Life ~

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. Your really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. and when we are talking about love... a real love, always remember that: When you are important to another person, that person will always find a way to make time for you. No excuses, no lies, no broken promises.

..written by AndyDragon When you really love someone you accept all, You never give up and never let go, You love that person unconditionally, You love them completely …. Sometimes life is not what you want it to be, But to stay alive we just have to deal, Never stop believing in the beauty of your dreams, Because without them we are nothing…. Don’t expect love to be as it is because when you do, you’ll never appreciate its existence, Remember that there’s one true love for you to have and hold, It may not be the best but it is the one you deserve…. someone once said, “Imperfections of the human state, are outweighed by the human love…” True, never disregards…. The heart that listens, Cures like a medicine. Making it true again That someone cares…. Step into my world and see for a few moments my view, my idea of life. See the world through my vision and feelings. Let me stir your deepest feelings, let me touch your heart. See the vision of beauty and hear t...

PINKKKKKKKKKKKKK couldn't help exceeding my perfect mood :P

Every married couple has heard the quote 'For the Better or Worse'. It is enthusiastically avowed the day we say "I Do". But as life would have it, we are faced with situations and circumstance where those words are forgotten and flushed. We keep saying nothing is perfect. Obviously no relationship is perfect, you gotta work to make it perfect, because perfection is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has their fair share of disappointments, differences and arguments. But for some reason when we are on the other side of the fence, where the grass isn't so green - we are quick to let our vows disappear and we handle things the way we promised we wouldn't, why would you do that with something you once had the utmost desire and dedication for? Did you confuse yourself with a wedding and not a marriage? How stupid! It is human nature, I agree, to let the things we can't seem to work out go away. But for obvious human reasons you cannot expect...

"Still sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore. We have to understand that knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping, and even the biggest failure, even the worst, beats the hell out of never trying." -Grey's Anatomy Life could not just be the teacher we had back in school could it. It has to give us the lesson first and be the teacher afterwards. How not right. Well obviously nothing is right if I keep measuring it up the scale of norms. Lol "Still sometimes we have to see for ourselves" I have seen for myself, how I could do in relationships. I have been a friend, a lover, loving parents, brothers, sisters, and I cannot thank my God enough to give me a flavor of each of life's phases. Though a lot more has to come, but what has, sure has been significa...

According to Stephen R. Covey, little kindness and courtesies are so important. In relationships, the little things are the big things. How do you keep the flame of love burning? Do it in a T.I.M.E.L.Y fashion. T houghtfully and tenderly : As it is always written outside every carton containing glasses: “Handle with Care”. It is the same with human relationships. It is as fragile as a glass. Be considerate of the feelings of the other person in whatever you do. Just be thoughtful and treat each other with care. I ntimately : Promote moments of intimacy like a candlelight dinner or a late night TV show when there is nobody else to disturb your togetherness. Intimacy brings a relationship to a higher level. M aturely : Do not be emotional. Communicate and discuss matters with respect and support for each other. Attack the issue and not the person. E nduringly : Understand the financial situation and be happy with what you have in life and enjoy the moment....

Bonjour le monde!!! I'm in a such great mood today! This morning I received a beautiful email and it makes me feel so good and so special that I have such amazing people around me. It really doesn't matter that we don't know each other face to face, it doesn't matter that we live miles away from each other. It really doesn't matter, because one email, one phone call, one comment and the world seems to be a paradise. Thank you so much for being here. My Lovelies, life seems to be good. Step by step, day by day I like my life even more. I can't really explain that because physically nothing really has changed but me, myself I have changed a lot. I see myself in a different light and believe me, I like it ♥ I have grown so much since last year, I'm much more stronger and I finally am confident as I should be! You all, my readers motivate me, inspire me, influence me to the point you could not imagine. And for that I'd like to thank you. You are ...

... don't just stay at home waiting for his call stop lying to yourself the last goodbye was enough to close the door and let him go... ... everything has changed now it's time to love yourself... it's time to love yourself...

At times we become friends with the most unlikely people in the most unpredictable manner. Too many times friendships break for the most unfathomable reasons. I don’t understand how people can break off relationships which took ages to form in the blink of an eye. It takes a lot of personal investment to form a relationship of any sort. You invest time, attention and most importantly a lot of your own self in the process. One would suppose that if for nothing else then personal benefit people would try to sustain it and yet they don’t. While I can talk to people as long as I desire, as much as I wish there are very few where I become emotionally involved. However when this does happen then I embark on this journey of exploration of ‘us’ with permanence in mind. Naive, maybe, idiotic definitely! I never for a moment imagine that I would lose touch with you or that you wouldn’t be a very important part of my life for as long as I breathe. It took me this per...

A place to crash, I got you No need to ask, I got you Just get on the phone, I got you Come and pick you up if I have to What's weird about it is we're right at the end I'm mad about it, just figured it out in my head I'm proud to say I got you Go ahead and say goodbye, I'll be alright Go ahead and make me cry, I'll be alright And when you need a place to run to For better, for worse I got you, I got you Ain't falling apart or bitter Let's be bigger than that and remember The cooling outdoor when you're all alone Won't survive it, no drama, no need for a show Just wanna say I got you 'Cause this is love and life And nothing we can both control And if it don't feel right You're not losing me by letting me know A place to crash, I got you No need to ask, I got you

Of all the days in the week, Monday is the most dreaded day of my entire life so far. Thank you God I am not a Monday child, I’d be mourning every single day of my life then :) yea you are wondering I am still doing the same :P but that is how you think and I don’t care how you think. You are silly and you are stupid and what ever you do in your frame of sanity is surely far from mine. I am much too over your league or do they say way out of your league :) I haven’t been blogging like I did once. And I miss it so much. Next month I am planning to get acrylic nails done so no way can I afford a laptop again. Just wishing that dad says he’ll gift it :( but that is just a wish for now. Mom and brothers showered me with the most awaited items on my wish list and I shall be forever grateful. I still owe them their stuff. I wonder when boss will give me a gooooooooooooooooood raise. I hardly am able to save anything and that just makes me sad!! *sniff sniff! Back to the sniffi...

..I think "prayers" bestowed out of "concern" cleverly conceal a hidden intent of manipulation and control. I'm not ungrateful, just a tad leery. ...I wonder about motives especially when they’re under the guise of goodwill. …I wonder why people rarely say exactly what they want... I'll admit I’m guilty of this at times. ...I can't help but think some "suggestions" are a passive-aggressive way of saying I'm flawed in some way. Cookie cutter I'm not, so deal with it. While my intentions are genuinely good 98.8% of the time, sometimes they’re misunderstood. Not a good feeling, but I realize it takes a willingness to communicate to correct or clarify a situation. Lesson learned for the umpteenth time. ...I find it interesting how my darkest days were filled with isolation and the need for a compassionate listening ear yet the phone rarely buzzed. Unsolicited advice and offers to "help" abound when not...

Someone woke up today. Someone woke up today and kissed someone they love on the forehead. Someone woke up today and kissed someone they love on the forehead, before they left. Someone woke up today and kissed someone they love on the forehead, before they left, they said "I love you. Have a good day. I'll speak to you later." Someone woke up today and kissed someone they love on the forehead, before they left, they said "I love you. Have a good day. I'll speak to you later. I love you. I love you." And they replied "I love you." And they kissed them goodbye. For the very last time. Someone woke up today. But they won't wake up tomorrow.

"Enthusiasm is one of the most powerful engines of success. When you do a thing, do it with all your mind. Put your whole soul to it. Stamp it with your own personality. Be active, be energetic, be enthusiastic and faithful, and you will accomplish your object. Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm."

Salut my love freaks! How are you doing? How life is treating you?I know I have been absent for so long that my lack of presence shouldn't be accepted anymore. The explanation that my life has become hectic shouldn't interest you but if you'd like to know I can fairly say I have 2 jobs, I'm preparing for a my wedding, plus I decided to shape my body so since today I am on a diet and I got my gym carnet and what's more once per week I work out with my personal trainer. Last Saturday I had my first lesson and believe me or not I can barely walk! Ayy... Between rush and rush I have found a time for myself and I like it. I take care of myself better than ever. I really enjoy it and it makes me feel very happy. Well I feel beautiful from the inside and outside, you can only imagine how good it is to feel this extremely good. Do you treat yourself well Darlings? "When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed a...

You could search the world far and wide to find someone more deserving of your love and affection than yourself, but you'll never find that person. You yourself are more deserving of that love than anyone in the Universe. ‎Magic is believing in yourself, if you can do that, you can make anything happen. ‎ "Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself."

I woke up early this morning around 4am With the moon shining bright as headlights on the interstate I pulled the covers over my head and tried to catch some sleep But thoughts of us kept keeping me awake Ever since you found yourself in someone else's arms I've been tryin' my best to get along But that's OK There's nothing left to say, but Take your records, take your freedom Take your memories I don't need'em Take your space and take your reasons But you'll think of me And take your cap and leave my sweater 'Cause we have nothing left to weather In fact I'll feel a whole lot better But you'll think of me, you'll think of me I went out driving trying to clear my head I tried to sweep out all the ruins that my emotions left I guess I'm feeling just a little tired of this And all the baggage that seems to still exist It seems the only blessing I have left to my name Is not knowing what we could have been What ...

I set out on a narrow way, many years ago Hoping I would find true love along the broken road But I got lost a time or two Wiped my brow and kept pushing through I couldn't see how every sign pointed straight to you Every long lost dream led me to where you are Others who broke my heart, they were like northern stars Pointing me on my way into your loving arms This much I know is true That God blessed the broken road That led me straight to you Yes He did I think about the years I spent, just passing through I'd like to have the time I lost, and give it back to you But you just smile and take my hand You've been there, you understand It's all part of a grander plan that is coming true Every long lost dream led me to where you are Others who broke my heart, they were like northern stars Pointing me on my way into your loving arms This much I know is true That God blessed the broken road That led me straight to you But now I'm just rolling home into my lover's arm...

Sometimes we lose. We don’t want to but it happens. We can’t control it but it’s there. We cry about it but it is hardly within our powers to change anything. And then we break down . A person who seemed unbreakable – breaks. A person who seemed so strong – crumbles. A person who always laughed it off – cries. A person who would never stop trying – is about to give up and quit . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more. But if you risk and it does not work out? And you were ready to give them the world if they had given you the chance but the chance never happened to be? Is it worth risking when everything broke to million pieces, which cannot be collected back because it does not depend on you only? You can just walk away But I don’t feel the same My heart still beats for you, Breathes for you, Sings for you And those feelings will never fade I can hide ...

1. Love – There is no official guide for falling in love, falling out of love, or dealing with the emotional intricacies of love. Love cannot be taught and it certainly cannot be forced. Love is an instinctual feeling, a powerful sentiment, one we will all find under different circumstances and must each figure out for ourselves. 2. Friendship – Some personalities simply click and others clash. Just like love, friendship is a natural process that cannot be forced. Other people can select our acquaintances for us, but over time we will find true friendship on our own. When the conversations are comfortable and relaxed and a mutual feeling of trust is apparent, true friendship has been found. 3. Loss – At some point each one of us will experience a loss in life. It could be the death of a loved one, the devastation of personal belongings, or a vicious rejection in our career. Each of us is going to naturally deal with loss in our own unique manner, some taking more ...

skip to main | skip to sidebar "...and sometimes...just in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairytale" But do fairytales come true?? In reality its almost always that the nightmares with horrible endings come true.. the fairytales with happy endings are often restricted to dreams and storybooks :) Love does make us live in a fairytale but is it fair to do so knowing that the bubble can burst anytime... Its true that sometimes just in the middle of an ordinary life love gives us a fairytale, but sometimes its also true that just in the middle of a fairytale, life is contemplating on a nightmare with memories to haunt us for the rest of our lives... Just thought people should be aware of both sides of love... we always go for the fairytale however great is the risk of it being shortlived.. we never learn do we? :) Each relationship always has two sides, not a good one and a bad one, or a right one and a wrong one, but...

We are so quick to judge other people’s life choices, aren’t we? If someone’s choices don’t align with the ones we make ourselves, we immediately get boldfaced about it, we act shocked and worried and like things would be so much better had they thought twice about what they did. We worry about their future regrets and all the bad that might come to them. When someone gets married young, at what we call the ‘ripe age of…’ and insert any number under the age of 25, we get so shocked. We fear that they are throwing their lives away, that they are making a huge mistake in choosing love at such a young age. We pull out statistics, call them stupid and ignorant, regardless of the fact that we are acting the same way by judging them so. Some say: They haven’t even really lived yet, why are they condemning themselves to this marriage? We put our own regrets and the mistakes we’ve made onto others. This weekend I met someone who is 35 and unmarried with no relationship prospects...

"On your journey to your dream, be ready to face oasis and deserts. In both cases, don't stop" I have been suffering lately for the lack of inspiration. I think I need some time for my own to come back stronger and more powerful. Sometimes we have days like that when we don't even want to open our laptop. In the meantime while I am looking for things to talk about I am leaving you with Paulo Coelho and hope that you all are doing more than great. By the way.... I've never thought that I will ever have to agree with this quote. Apparently I have to do it now.

Dear heart at some point in my life I thought that I will never find what love is. When I have gotten mature enough I felt like all men are the strangest and the most difficult species to understand on earth! Well I didn't know at that time that first I should become understandable to myself. It was and still is the longest, the most honest and the deepest road you can ever take, on the other hand it's one of the most amazing, the most beautiful and the purest journey you could ever imagine! After some time I did fall in love. Then I fell in love again. I loved deeply. They all passed by. Then I met someone and he has shown me the new meaning of l o v e . Wouldn't be great to close my eyes and feel his breathe on my neck and hands around my waist! Wouldn't be great to see his passionate sight, to see him wanting and desiring me. Wouldn't be great to smile without a reason! Wouldn't be great to immerse myself in those dreams of future with him. F...

Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved ones. Love is like a piece of artwork in the works; if you are not satisfied, you keep on beautifying it until it becomes very wonderful. Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, but few ever achieve it. Those who do will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all will never forget it. Love is a powerful addiction for the human soul. Even people that have not experienced it, yearn for the chance to give and receive it from someone special. Love is one powerful host -- A force less energy that makes all light spin. It spins our hearts. It spins our minds. How we balance ourselves to this sudden chaos and crazy motion is our own fine line. Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should be given respec...