Fairy Tale or Nightmare?

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"...and sometimes...just in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairytale"

But do fairytales come true?? In reality its almost always that the nightmares with horrible endings come true.. the fairytales with happy endings are often restricted to dreams and storybooks :) Love does make us live in a fairytale but is it fair to do so knowing that the bubble can burst anytime...

Its true that sometimes just in the middle of an ordinary life love gives us a fairytale, but sometimes its also true that just in the middle of a fairytale, life is contemplating on a nightmare with memories to haunt us for the rest of our lives...

Just thought people should be aware of both sides of love... we always go for the fairytale however great is the risk of it being shortlived.. we never learn do we? :)
Each relationship always has two sides, not a good one and a bad one, or a right one and a wrong one, but rather a happy one and a sad one. So does LOVE. You cannot be happy always, or live in a fairytale world, expecting your Prince / Princess make each moment of your togetherness a precious memory to be kept deep in the heart for the rest of your life. Your life together.

If you expect the entire life to be painted in pink color then I must disappoint you. One day the bubble will just burst and you will be left with nothing but bitter experience and painful regrets.
Love is a fairytale, indeed.
It makes you go awwww each morning you wake up and think of that special one.
It makes you smile when you are tired.
It makes you a better person.
But most of all it makes you happy.

It is when you catch yourself smiling for no reason at all.
When you not just try to be happy, but you are and you mean it.

But this fairytale does not just happen. You work for it. And you work hard. Every day. Every single hour. Each moment of your life. You adjust, you care, you compromise, you create your own fairytale. Provided that the other party does the same. It is when they don’t, or when you don’t when you wake up and realize that your fairytale had turned into a nightmare long ago but you were too blind following the idea of fitting your relationship into a fairytale scheme. And then your mornings’ awwwws change to tears and pain and promises that you will never again let anyone come close to your heart because how can a broken heart love again?

And you stay there alone wondering where and what went wrong and if there ever was a chance for the fairytale to remain a fairytale only without gaining the features of the worst nightmare ever.

And you ask yourself does true love really exist? What about everyone saying that True love doesn't have a happy ending, because true love never ends? And if so, then what exactly was your FAIRYTALE? And the easiest way is to believe that fairytales are restricted to books and movies, that they are not only NOT for you but as a matter of fact NOT for anyone. This way you feel hurt less. Its like, okay, I didn’t have a true love, but then... who does?

Maybe it is really so. I wouldn’t call it cynical or practical. It is just simpler to think so.
But true love does not just happen. You find love, and you work hard to make it a harmonious bond of two loving hearts. And if the other person works for it too, then chances are high that you have created your own fairytale. For lifetime.

Yes, love always has two sides – a happy one and a sad one. And when someone isn’t ready to work for their relationship, they are bound to hurt and get hurt. And if you are at the receiving end … well, you can’t make or force someone love you, but you can always make them regret they don’t. The loss is always theirs. And then you have got a lifetime for finding love, working to make it true and creating your own fairytale.

Because like someone once said… Sometimes... just in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairytale… And then I add, if we are ready to work for it.