Happy in Love?

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It is easy to be happy in love when someone loves you back. What do you feel if they don’t? Are you happy for them? Are you upset they have chosen someone else? Are you angry that life wants you to go through this? Can you be genuinely happy for them?

What do you feel when your heart is broken but you still love that person with all the little pieces?
Do you shed tears but still care about them?
Do they ignore you but you still want to be around them?
Does it look like they are the only reason for you to wake up in the morning and start a new day?
And it is not that you can’t live without them, it is just that you don’t even want to try.

And when they love someone else, will you find the powers within to say “I am happy for you”?
And there are million of questions on your mind.

If they ever wonder how you are doing? If you cross their mind every now and then? If they want you to be around? If they know how you feel? Does it change the way they feel about you? Do you have to hope or should you move on? Can you be just friends?..

And you do have your own answers too…

You know that you love seeing them smile. You want their heart skip a beat when they hear your name. You want them to wish they were with you. You wish to hold them in your arms, to kiss them anytime you want to, wish to say that you love them. You are ready to go to the stars for them.

And you know you would be happy to do it all, but yet you know you can’t.Are you happy loving them? People say love is the most beautiful thing present in this world. Do you agree? Do you feel the beauty of it?

If you don’t then maybe it is not love? Because if you truly love someone, then the only thing you want for them is to be happy....even if it’s not with you.

And it takes a great heart to love unconditionally and to feel happy for someone who will never be yours.
And it takes a lot of courage to wake up every morning and face the reality which is different from your dreams.
And it takes a beautiful soul to be a good friend, to give comfort and support, to care about them like they are your own even if they are not.

And you know that no matter where they go and no matter what they do…no matter where destiny leads them… or you…
no matter if they love someone else… or don’t
no matter if they are in the same town… or thousands miles away
you will be always there for them.

Ready to listen to them.
Ready to help.
Ready to take their tears away.


Just because you love them. And because you know they deserve it. And it makes you happy.

Comments

  1. Mellow NellyJune 02, 2010

    did i tell ya before how much i look forward to read yr love ramblings?? and everytime you just leave me speechless..

    Yes! all I want now is to see him happy always.. I am there now to shed his part of tears too :)

    lovely post girl.. love is beautiful indeed inspite of all the pain it brings along.. *smiles*

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  2. ladybirdJune 02, 2010

    Lovely post dear!

    It is so heart wrenching to see the one we love be happy with another,but sometimes it cannot be helped and neither is to blame.So it is as well to be happy for them and live on good terms than be sad at one's own loss and lead a lifetime of resentment.

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  3. MyViewsJune 02, 2010

    is it jus smthn that we want to feel or is it smthn that we really feel...does it really complete us or do we just want to believe it does...

    it makes us ask a lot of questions...d right n d wrong of it...we "shud" feel happy for them then y is jealousy a part of love...n such a major one at that too

    its jus a concept of unconditional love...mayb it exists on mars n venus...but does it really in our lives...in our world?? in our minds??

    there r jus too many unanswered questions n jus too lil sense to think abt em...

    hmmm m rambling again..

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  4. StKermitJune 02, 2010

    waaaaa....you really said it, babe...but can I be a lil' bit selfish too? I want her back, I really do...I still love her so very much, it hurts just to think what is going on with her right this very moment...

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  5. τħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёяJune 02, 2010

    that was so well written..
    aandd it did touch me deeply..

    u r rite.. it takes so much to love unconditionally and to be loved back the same way.. and when parted.. it takes all the more effort for not running the questions through in ur mind.. especially what did u do wrong that the person has left u and is with someone else now..

    may be u can write about the smiles next time :)

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  6. TrinaaaJune 02, 2010

    happy 4 him? mmmmm..maybe ;P

    ...no but seriously, i dont think u can be completely happy...feeling jealous or bitter is natural...for u noe wht could hv been urs but isnt!

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  7. RiversoulJune 02, 2010

    wonderful post...

    its so true that if your love is true, no matter what we will wish them all the happiness...even if it is on our cost..!!

    well penned..!!

    :)

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  8. Jason MJune 02, 2010

    Very nice post. But just wondering whether it is easy to care about people who dont love you?

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  9. Jessica RobertsJune 02, 2010

    Thanks LadyB

    it's a good point to remember maybe we don't love as much as we thought if we can't bear to see them happy with someone else. Good to think about.

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  10. bumblebeeJune 02, 2010

    wen i read the whole post i just remembered 3ree things

    to love is easy ...to being loved is lot difficult..:)...

    One of the hardest things in life is watching the ...person you love, love someone else

    If you love somebody, let them go. If they return... they were always yours. If they don't, they never were

    ladyb i think u got my ans on how i respond on love :)..

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  11. Jonah WilliamsJune 02, 2010

    Every1 uses this word "love" n has so many Qs n solutions abt it..

    but i don't know the meaning of love. I don't even know if it actually exists.I know "warmth". I know "Care" but "love" I feel is simply an illusion...

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  12. a new philosopher is bornJune 02, 2010

    i suppose everyone have their own theories... i suppose we all deal with this situation differently. Besides it is quite easy for us to form opinions when we are actually not going through the situation :-)

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  13. Proud to Be MeJune 02, 2010

    love is simple and complicated. all at once. but yeah, it's beautiful. and u've put it across so well.

    topics? how difficult is it for a gay/lesbian to be normal in today's world?
    love vs arranged marriage.. .

    will let u know when i think of more... :)

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  14. dragon keeperJune 02, 2010

    "Just because you love them. And because you know they deserve it. And it makes you happy."

    yes it makes me happy loving without reason...
    u said just about everything there is to say...
    this post will remain very close to my heart :)
    beautifully written girl :)

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  15. Nick PhillipsJune 02, 2010

    Wonderful post. It really takes a lot of strength to love someone whom you can't have.

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  16. humble devilJune 02, 2010

    you just wrote my heart out...hehe

    beautifully written as always...
    :)

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  17. Mel Avila AlarillaJune 02, 2010

    Hi LadyB,

    Just a little piece of advice. I hope you don't mind. You are always hurt because you put your trust on people. People are unstable. They change. They have their own trials in life which they must overcome. The best thing is to put your trust in God. Let God be the center of your existence and everything else will fall into place. If you get hurt, you can just turn it over to God. Remember, God is love, that is His very essence, His very nature. If your heart is full of love for God, then nothing much can hurt you. You then realize that your true happiness lie in your relationship with your God and everything else are just icings on the cake. We will never find true happiness and contentment in life if we look for them among humans. Humans are all weak. We can only find them with a right relationship with God. Then you can ask for your perfect partner from Him.

    Sorry for the long comments. I hope you were not offended by my unsolicited advice. I give it with a hand of friendship and brotherly love. Thanks for your moving post. God bless you always.

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  18. JoyceJune 02, 2010

    a lovely point there ladyB.

    firstly if u really love someone then u wud always luk for the happiness of that person even if u sacrifice ur happiness for that. and until u can do tat u are not really in love with tat person.

    here again I don't say tat wen we make tat sacrifice we need to feel very good and all after all we r human beings na we can feel sad and bad but wat actually matters is the sacrifice we make and tats it.

    hey I must say here I loved commenting on it .. a big hand for u..clap clap...

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  19. Chocolate lollipopsJune 02, 2010

    Hi Guys!!

    Thank you for the comments!! I appreciate them!!

    Happy reading!

    =)

    @ Mel

    thank you very much for advice but i am afraid you are getting something wrong here. First, where did i mention that i feel hurt or bad? Nothing of this is happening to me. Please do not relate what i write to myself and my life. They have nothing in common. They are just general ramblings that might be of interest to someone, that's why they are on my blog. I am very happy in my life and that's how it is going to be.

    To the second part of your advice, i do not think we should rely that much on God. That's just not right to seek happiness and harmony in him, when you have to live with real people and your happiness depends upon the happiness of them. And your happiness is made by yourself. it is all within your mind and your heart. I hope you understand my point :)

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  20. Chocolate lollipopsJune 02, 2010

    thank you, proud to be me :)

    And thanks for the topics too.. am looking forward to more from you :)

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  21. Chocolate lollipopsJune 02, 2010

    @ StKermit,

    Hi Dear, ofcourse you can be selfish! hehe

    go get her!!

    If its meant to be.. its meant to be, there's no need to look for it.. It will come rolling down..

    but if its not meant to be... Someday, Somehow, Someone, Somewhere, she's waiting for you too..


    =)

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