We live.. We love.. We hurt

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Life is a weird thing, we have few relationships that are important to us and we fail to maintain them the way we would like - without PAIN, without TEARS, without DISAPPOINTMENTS... but we do continue them because in the end they are all (i repeat ALL) what we have got :) ... People are going to hurt you every now and then, you are going to hurt them every now and then.. In the end everyone is getting hurt or hurts you, you are the one who decide who is worth this pain ... that's impossible to avoid it.. we are not angels, rather devils in relationships with dear to us people...

From today's chat:
me: i don't like being hurt neither by you nor by someone else, and i hate the moments when someone has to say sorry .... but in any kind of relationships you cant do without it, you do hurt people, you make up for this, you try to be perfect for the ones you like/love, it doesn't work always but if we give up on someone we truly like and love, then what life it would be?? giving up after the first mistake is not a good thing, you know :)

How often we give up only because we think that people who loves us cant hurt us, they can, and in fact they will hurt us more than anyone else..... just because they are close to us, EXACTLY because of it!! But then what?? give up on them? say they are not worth us? That's definitely the easiest way, but again .. if i would give up on everyone who hurt me i would have stayed alone with no people around... well when i think now, maybe with the one only (yes, yes, am lucky to have such one in my life :)) ...

In my life i used to give people second chances, third chances.... twentieth chances... sometimes i was proved wrong, one time i made a big mistake in giving someone absolutely unworthy this second chance but mostly it paid off... Friendship is all about hurting, being hurt, forgiving, forgetting, being hurt again, crying, laughing about this stupid matters, forgetting, hurting... and so on..its a circle, has no end... pure second chances....

But from every wound there is a scar, and every scar tells a story. A story that says, Friendship survived. Which means it all was worth it :)

And then you also know that despite everything when the moment comes... they will be there to help you when you are down, and if they can't, they will lay down beside you and listen...


Comments

  1. Jessica RobertsJune 04, 2010

    Last post? Why? where are u going?

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  2. RiversoulJune 04, 2010

    I love reading your blog.. thank you for writing it.

    What do u mean by last post?

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  3. Proud to Be MeJune 04, 2010

    Lovely post!

    Love reading your post LadyB!

    Why will this be your last post?

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  4. humble devilJune 04, 2010

    LAST POST? no way!!

    Please dont do that! I.. We love reading your stories and advise!!

    U cant leave us with this sad post.

    no way!!

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  5. MermaidJune 04, 2010

    Love the post.

    sorry your leaving.

    She finally left eh?

    ~hugs~

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  6. τħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёяJune 04, 2010

    Last post?!

    Why? Don't go LadyB! Whats up? What happening? Pen it down.. Tell us.. Feed us.

    U can't not, Not blog!

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  7. TrinaaaJune 04, 2010

    Well LadyB.. Maybe someday you will write here again.

    Until then, this last post was great!

    I hope and wish your life will be full of love and happiness and good health always, too.

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  8. MyViewsJune 04, 2010

    Why are u leaving us with this as your last post?

    And why you decide not to write anymore?

    May ur days be filled with love too dear!

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  9. KSMJune 04, 2010

    LadyB,

    It has been an honor reading your life through out the years.

    I'm sorry your hurting, and I wish there's something I can do to ease the pain.

    I hope that someday, you would return to blogville and inspire us again!

    Looking forward to that day!

    Until then, may your life be filled with happiness with those who you love.

    Take care LadyB.

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  10. Mellow NellyJune 04, 2010

    Will you write here again?

    dont go too long! we will miss you!

    thank you for writing.. ur words always helped me through my though times in my life.

    see u soon!!

    All the best for u!

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  11. Jaded JadeJune 04, 2010

    hunny.. are u ok? whats going on?

    dont stop writing!

    gonna miss u!

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  12. ladybirdJune 04, 2010

    Lovely post dear!!

    Are u hurting? Please do feel better soon.

    and hope to see ramble here soon!

    take care!

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  13. Darshan ChandeJune 04, 2010

    Leaving so soon? I just started reading it!

    Nooo! Dont go!!

    Why are you so sad? All your post have been full of love and happiness?

    something is going on? whats going on?

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  14. Chocolate lollipopsJune 04, 2010

    Hi guys!

    Im fine. thanks for asking.

    Maybe eh. Someday I'll be back to ramble again.

    Thank you for the love guys!

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  15. Jason MJune 04, 2010

    You wont be blogging anymore?

    Whats the reason to this sudden change?

    U know I love reading every one of it..

    anyhow..hope to see u here back soon ok!

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  16. bumblebeeJune 04, 2010

    But from every wound there is a scar, and every scar tells a story. A story that says, Friendship survived. Which means it all was worth it - BELIEVE in this dear!!

    Life may seem to be at its end.. For the butterfly was burned by the dragons fire.. there's no way to survive the fire from burning.. 3ree years i've been reading about the dragon who captured your heart.. and these pass three months all you talked was about the dragon..

    it hurts, i know ladyB.. i know.. there there.. why not let the sadness and the ending of your first love here.... pen it down..

    one more story.. i know u can do it..

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  17. dragon keeperJune 04, 2010

    without PAIN, without TEARS, without DISAPPOINTMENTS... but we do continue them because in the end they are all (i repeat ALL) what we have got :) ... People are going to hurt you every now and then, you are going to hurt them every now and then.. In the end everyone is getting hurt or hurts you, you are the one who decide who is worth this pain ... that's impossible to avoid it.. we are not angels, rather devils in relationships with dear to us people...

    SO TRUE..

    I agree with bumble bee.. pen it down.

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  18. Chocolate lollipopsJune 05, 2010

    @ Darshan Chande, Thanks for taking time to read my ramblings!! There's tons of stories for you to read through.. eh, who knows, maybe when your done reading.. i'll be bk for next ramble!

    @ Jason, yeah.. will be back. someday. for now i cant think of anything to blog. i dont wanna hurt anyone else anymore.

    @ Bumblebee.. serves me right to mess with the dragon eh? Im ok.. dragon is still around..

    @ Dragon keeper, I will pendown something soon.


    My love to all here.. I will be bk soon.. Thank you for reading!

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  19. The RiddlerJune 06, 2010

    Hey LadyB!

    I have been reading your blogs for quite sometime now, even though i never commented here, I think you write such wonderful stories and beautiful sayings..

    I dont think you should ever stop writing..

    Maybe take some time off blogging.. come came soon to feed us here with more stories.

    and as for the friendship or the dragon.. Im sure you will work things out.

    You LadyB, are a strong person. You need to believe in it.. Trust yourself.

    You will find your way back..

    Best wishes for you girl!

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  20. Chocolate lollipopsJune 06, 2010

    @ The Riddler

    thank u for reading my ramblings.

    I will blog again.. I'm kinda busy lately with work.. and wont have much time to blog.. but once im free I will ramble and ramble non stop!

    thank u for the advice!

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  21. Fruit On The VinesJune 06, 2010

    It would be a waste if you ma'Lady stop writing..

    I've been a regular visitor on ur ramblings. and u ma'ady are a strong woman.. u shouldn't let one person or two let ur guard down.

    I know u built this great wall.. and if it comes crumbling down.. it can be fixed.

    u once told me, not too long ago that "ur broken heart will soon heal.. it might take sometime.." my Lady.. "loves takes time to heal" when love ended for me about a year ago.. u remember what u said? "everything is gonna be ok.. this too shall pass.. u shall meet someone, somewhere, someday.. the wait will be worth waiting for" and i kept that in mind.. and u were right.. i did meet someone.. and we are soon getting married.

    ur advise made me see the world and people a little different.

    now ma'LadyB.. im saying this to u.. "ur broken heart will soon heal.. it might take sometime Loves takes time to heal, everything is gonna be ok.. this too shall pass.. u shall meet someone, somewhere, someday.. The wait will be worth waiting for"

    Be strong ma lady..

    Now.. start rambling!

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  22. Chocolate lollipopsJune 07, 2010

    @ Fruit On The Vines

    I'm not heart broken..

    and will write soon..

    ReplyDelete

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