Things they told me never to tell you

I am far from having a husband but then that will never stop me from imagining now could it. Of course we all have some terms and conditions for getting something and applying something t our lives.

So here goes my … if I had a life partner right now there are things which I’d tell him even though other women would find it more easy and proper to be discreet about. I for one believe that there is no veil in between a man and his wife, and so what I feel I’ll say and he should too because I’ll really want him to, no matter how negative it is.

Silence is never the cure and keeping something nice too isn’t worth it. When in matrimony do as one soul in one body. Not two distinct people.

A little inspiration has been taken from something I read a while ago. I have been going through the misery of no internet access at home so I just have to blog today or else I’ll choke.

So my dear life partner, be ready to be bored!

(or rather dear reader, I am on that route again)

1. I may all that in control of a situation, but the fact remains that you are my man and I heavily rely on you for all sorts of comforts. You are the essence of my being. It is because you are with me that I am a stronger and better person. Hand in hand we will conquer most of what they say is unimaginable Insyallah!

2. all the chivalrous things that you do, like opening the door, carrying the grocery bags, tucking me in when I am sick, kissing me every morning no matter how you feel, it all accounts for something big for me. I love you for pampering me that way and yes even if you didn’t I’d still love you.

3. Having a life commitment with you is so comforting and wonderful. I love knowing that we are a team and that we're going to be on the same team forever (or I hope so). You fit the frame of my Prince Charming and you should know that I have waited for you all my life; no one comes close to what you are, remember that always.

4. Yes I want you to be possessive about me and be jealous when I introduce you to an old friend or class mate. You should have that high about me all the time because that really does my ‘belonging to you’ a lot of good. Just don’t get to over the board with it, like I said you’ll always top my list.

5. Johnny Depp is sexy, Hugh Jackman is irresistible, Angelina Jolie is delicious, but you my sweet heart are a package of all three and never have I fantasized cuddling with anyone but you and now you are here; in my reality – woweee!

6. Some things are just too important and intimate to share and I will never let our intimacy be the talk of tongues. Yes I do share my disliking about what your mother did or sister did, but what you do and how we cope up and how mushy you are etc. that is for me to know and is our secret to keep. Believe when I say and never fear that which I haven’t uttered.

7. Yes I do think about love-making a lot, but with you. You think you can beat me to it? I doubt it, try me if you must but let us not get carried away **wink

8. You know about my obsessive nature and yet you calmly accept me with it and other flaws. It is because you are genuine to me, I feel the pride of having a diamond found, even if it took as long as it did. Thank you, I love you

9. You made me a mother and I can never be grateful enough. So yes they say it takes two to make something this grand but this is more, this is that priceless possession that no money in the world could equal. The little things that you do and turn my life around for the better makes me love you so much more.

10. I know how it annoys you that I go on and on about how great my dad is. And I am so sorry that I sound like I am criticizing you. But honey I really don’t mean to say what you think I said, I love my dad for being the man for so long in my life, but I am just his princess, which is just natural. You are my king and you should never forget that.

11. I am not the best thing that walked the face of this earth and I will never ever walk all over you trying to impose my being on you

12. I love you, hubby! You are the love of my life and I just couldn’t make it without you. I wouldn’t want to try. You are the icing on the cake, the smile on my face, the only man who could please me and love me for the way I am. I hope and pray that forever I wake in your arms, listen to your voice and be in love with you. You make life great for me. Thank you for all you do and all you are!

13. I do respect that you take everything your mother, brother, sister or father very seriously in all matters of life but regarding living our married life, isn't that our call to make sweetie? I love how we discuss things and then find a way about it, knowing that together we are a better force than ten people all together. I love you for finding place for me in your already occupied life :D

So hubby dearest, since you are the best thing that has happened to me, will you not tell me how good I have done for you? hehe!

Yes I am waiting - with an open mind, and an open heart and I know the day you say that which I think you will, I'll be yours instantly :) Waited too long now!
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